Pity the poor wife who is trying hard to follow her molasses moving husband. Even with her “brakes on,” she coasts ahead of him.
Or maybe she tries to follow, but he waffles back and forth without a family vision, or, if he has one, won’t consistently follow it. So one minute she is following, but another, when he abruptly changes direction, she is now in front.
May I not make it difficult for my wife to follow. To do this, I have to know where I am going and then be committed to staying the course. Got vision? If no, then get one. If yes, then follow it!
“Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.” (1 Corinthians 11:1)