Seen or Viewed

Teri and I were on our normal walk when we heard a cheerful “Hello” behind us. A car was stopped at the stop sign with the window rolled down. It took a moment for me to recognize the man even though I have known him quite a while. I happily returned the greeting as I turned to walk over to him. 

My friend had lost significant weight and didn’t look healthy. As I approached him, I said how good it was to see him. He replied, “It is better to be seen than viewed.” I got his humor as he is dying of cancer and likely will only live a few more months before he is in a casket for viewing. 

He is a heartbreak for us. We have known him for several years and been able to develop a friendship. One day about three months ago, he told us that he was just diagnosed with terminal cancer. I asked if I could come over and talk with him further, and he agreed. 

 I arranged a time to visit, and was soon sitting in his living room. I gave my testimony of Who Jesus is and what He has done in my life. As I began sharing the Gospel, I hit a roadblock. This God blaspheming person defiantly said he WAS going to heaven because he was a good person and he didn’t need Jesus. We cordially wound down the discussion, and I left he and his wife with a Good Person tract. They said they would read and discuss it. 

With a heavy heart, I continue to pray while the clock counts down. Thankfully we have  maintained our friendship as demonstrated by his calling me over at the stop sign to talk. “But if our gospel be hid, it is hid to them that are lost: In whom the god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine unto them” (2 Corinthians 4:3-4).

Oh my brothers, get to know your neighbors, love them, and seek opportunities to share our glorious Lord and salvation with them. You won’t regret it. However, if you don’t, you will have regrets.

What You Eat

It has been well-documented and accepted that our health is greatly affected by what we eat yielding the expression, “You are what you eat.” Years ago, a similar expression was “Garbage in. Garbage out.” In essence, what you take into a system determines its output. 

We understand this in relation to our bodies, machinery, and electronics, and even what we take to recycling. Then why don’t professing Christians “get it” regarding their souls? I’ve heard it said that Christians aren’t concerned about the negative effects of watching or listening to worldly stuff because they treat it like they eat chicken, “You eat the meat, and spit out the bones.” However, look at how this analogy breaks down. When a person bites the meat from the bone, he isn’t swallowing any of the bone. If someone does swallow some bone, the body attempts to digest it, extracting everything it can from what was consumed before expelling it. In addition, if the meat eaten was chemically treated, or laden with bacteria, it could make him sick.

Maybe that partially explains why many professing Christian adults appear to be more like the world than their Savior. Now consider, if that is the effect of worldly activities and entertainment on professing adults, who think they won’t be negatively affected, what about their children who are consuming it by the hour, with no pretense of discernment. Oh God, have mercy. 

“Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty” (2 Corinthians 6:17-18).

Don’t Mess With Them 

Two close neighbors are sharp, fit, young guys who are sheriff deputies. One day they stood side-by-side near the corner of our yard, and one said loudly, “Three, two, one, go!” They took off sprinting like the wind down the street, turned in the driveway next to their house, and raced toward the chainlink fence, stretched between their house and the neighbors. Still moving faster than anyone I’ve ever seen run, I now winced as I anticipated them crashing into the fence. To my shock, they both cleared the fence effortlessly, like a couple of deers, and made a huge arch (because of their speed) in their backyard. I expected them to come out on the other side of their house, but then I heard one yell, “I won.” 

I laughed out loud when I realized what I just witnessed. They were practicing chasing a bad guy who thought he’d outrun the police. Pity the poor criminal who has these sheriffs in the chase. They are committed to being the best they can be at their jobs. 

My brothers, are we that serious about being an ambassador for Christ? “Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, …” (2 Corinthians 5:20). Do we represent our King well? Are we busy with His business or wasting His time on our pleasure? 

“Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord” (1 Corinthians 15:58).

The Simplicity of the Word

As I prayed and pondered about what I could share this month to encourage my sisters in Christ, this verse caught my attention during my morning Bible time. “Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer (Romans 12:12). That verse is short enough you could memorize it without much effort, if you don’t already know it. Now consider what it would do for your life if you kept it in your heart and chose to do exactly what it says.

Rejoicing in Hope

In Romans 12, Paul gives many instructions for life with Christ and what that looks like in the nitty, gritty of each day for a believer. In this particular verse, we are to do three things, starting with “rejoicing in hope.” We know what it looks and feels like to rejoice in something. We are happy and pleased about it, maybe even excited. The Greek word for “hope,” according to Strong’s Expository Dictionary, is used 48 times in the New Testament, and it means: “to anticipate, usually with pleasure; expectation (abstractly or concretely) or confidence: — faith, hope.” We are to rejoice in hope. Here it doesn’t tell us exactly what hope we rejoice in. From all the places hope is used in the New Testament, it has a broad range from the hope of salvation, our place in heaven, to the hope of change for a difficult situation. When our minds go to rejoicing in hope, we move away from fretting, worry, complaining, anger, disappointment, and a host of other negative thoughts and emotions.

Patient in Tribulation

If that wasn’t enough, next we are told to be patient in tribulation, and Paul knows real tribulation! No surprise in what those Greek words mean. Patient, again according to Strong’s Expository Dictionary, is: “to stay under (behind), i.e. remain; figuratively, to undergo, i.e. bear (trials), have fortitude, persevere: — abide, endure, (take) patient(-ly), suffer, tarry behind.” While tribulation is: pressure (literally or figuratively): — afflicted(-tion), anguish, burdened, persecution, tribulation, trouble.”

Here is our direction for those situations that are hard, the ones we consider tribulations. Stick the problem or trial out with a persevering attitude. That sounds pretty tough. We don’t see a place, for what our normal reactions would be such as escape, fear, or grumbling. Instead, we are to go through it with patience as described by that Greek word.

Instant in Prayer

Finally, we have “continuing instant in prayer.” Strong’s tells us that “continuing instant” means: “to be earnest towards, i.e. (to a thing) to persevere, be constantly diligent.” Earnest, persevere, and diligent give a vivid picture of putting forth effort, not something that simply happens. How often do you find yourself thinking about a situation in your life or a loved one’s life, only to have negative emotions arise? Could that be because you aren’t “continuing instant in prayer” but are allowing your mind to dwell on the troubling situation instead?

Living It Out

Have you memorized that verse? If you haven’t, what would stop you from it? Then once it is in your mind, I challenge you to keep using it throughout your day. Make sure that you are doing the things it suggests you do, earnestly and purposely. Take your biggest problem causing negative emotions and hold it up to a life lived with Romans 12:12 and see where following the instructions in that verse moves you. I think it will change your perspective, free you from discouragement, remove angry feelings, dismiss bitterness, help you to not worry, and give you a heart of joy. I love this verse, but I need the encouragement I am sharing with you in this Mom’s Corner as much as I think you might. May we be women who live Romans 12:12.

May I add a P.S. to really conclude this Mom’s Corner? After I wrote it, a couple of situations happened – small in the overall scheme of things – but enough that I started mulling on them, with negative emotions surfacing right alongside the thoughts. Almost immediately, I remembered the Mom’s Corner verse and wanted to do what it directed. Simple – yes! Hard – yes, because sometimes it is almost as if we would like to hold on to the negative emotions so we avoid what moves us away from them. Blessed – absolutely. Peace is a lovely way walk.

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It’s That Time Again

I’ve talked to a number of guys who say they don’t discuss politics or religion because it makes them upset. Soon, however, with the Presidential election coming up, everybody will be talking about politics. It’s a “great” way to start a fight with someone who is passionate for one candidate or another. Those leading our country can certainly affect our quality of life and our security. If our lives and future depended solely on those in office, we would have plenty to be terrified of. “It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in princes” (Psalms 118:9).

Yet, may we never lose sight of Who is actually in control. “The king’s heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will” (Proverbs 21:1). Our God is sovereign, in control, and on the throne. Brothers, what we can do is pray. 

In Debt

Debt is a cruel master, and likely most know some who are deeply hurting under its load. Debt is easy to take on but very difficult to be free of. The pressure of it has been a key factor in destroying countless marriages. Debt is an ugly monster except for one which is surprisingly wonderful. Try to imagine one that is good and so big it can never be repaid! How could that be good? Any guesses? 

Paul said in Romans 1:14-15, “I am debtor both to the Greeks, and to the Barbarians; both to the wise, and to the unwise. So, as much as in me is, I am ready to preach the gospel to you that are at Rome also.” Paul treasured the unfathomable worth of Jesus’ death on the cross to pay for Paul’s sin, redeeming his soul, as an indebtedness to share the gospel with all that he could, under whatever hardship necessary. 

For those of us who are saved, we are indebted to our Lord similarly. Of course, we can never repay Him, but that constant awareness is such a good thing that motivates us to take any and all opportunities to share Christ with others. This isn’t to be construed in some legalistic way but a debt of love. “We love him, because he first loved us” (1 John 4:19).