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Embracing or Fleeing

I know a lot of guys who follow money, sports, and the news. It is the way it is and seems to be expected of men today. When younger the pursuit was women, fun, and sports. My questions iare: What do you follow after? What has your heart?

“But thou, O man of God, flee these things; and follow after righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, meekness” (1 Timothy 6:11).

At the end of the day as you are unwinding before sleep sets in, ask the Lord to reveal your heart. Ask Him to make it clear to you what has a grip on your heart. “And he is the head of the body, the church: who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead; that in all things he might have the preeminence” (Colossians 1:18).

May our prayer be, “Lord I want You to have first place in my life and may I flee the things of the world!” 

Super Easy

I can’t imagine a brother in Christ saying that he doesn’t like people and doesn’t care if they go to hell. It is unfathomable considering Jesus said the second great commandment is,  “… Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself…” (Mark 12:31). We do love ourselves so that is the standard. We are to love others. Therefore we will be concerned for the eternal welfare of others. 

A few weeks ago I encouraged you learn to engage others when you are out. How have you been doing? The goal isn’t to grab everyone you pass, put an arm lock on him, and preach the gospel to him. But as we love others, we cheerfully engage them, show interest in them, love them, and seek a spiritual bridge. 

The more you practice engaging people, the easier it gets, and the more you will enjoy it. Ask the Lord to give creativity. If someone is walking out of a store and has a big smile, I might say, “Great smile. It is so nice to see someone happy these days.” Or if someone has a big load, “Need any help getting that in your car,” or “May I return your cart for you?” Or after reading lettering on their shirt, “We’ve not been there, but I hear it is a great place. Did you like it?” Or “I love seeing a dad out with his children. Are you enjoying parenting?” Or (if he looks military) “Are you stationed here, or in the CGSC class? Where’s home?” Or “I’d love a pickup like that.” Or “I like to guess what line of work someone is in, are you a ____?” Or …

The idea is to get used to engaging people with no pressure to share the gospel. People feel loved when someone shows interest in them. Genuinely love them and attempt to dialog with them. They won’t bite your head off. At least, I’ve never had anyone say, “Shut up, and leave me alone!” 

Practice at church with visitors. It’s sad how often no one talks to visitors except to say, “Hello, welcome.”

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Steadfast as Mud

When I had a project that I wanted rock-solid, one that would last, I chose concrete. It’s kid-proof, and it isn’t going anywhere. I’ve thought of concrete similar to 1 Corinthians 15:58. “Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.” 

Steadfast and unmovable were what I thought of regarding concrete, but I’ve since modified that opinion. Years ago there was a concrete patio outside the backdoor of a house we lived in. Recently, I had the opportunity to get a good look at that patio after 20 years. 

Much of the patio was still intact, but there was a large crack that separated it into two big slabs. The side closest to the house had sunk over a foot. What seemed stedfast, was still very firm, but it had moved – in fact to the point of not being usable. The patio concrete moved because the ground it was resting on next to the foundation sunk. If the patio had been “pinned” to the foundation, it would not have moved when the ground moved. 

That is what we need if we are to be steadfast and unmovable. Even if we are solid in our beliefs, we must be pinned/attached to the Lord Jesus, our God, our rock, Who is unchangeable. “Be thou my strong habitation, whereunto I may continually resort: thou hast given commandment to save me; for thou art my rock and my fortress” (Psalms 71:3). We will be pulled down by the world around us. It might look firm, but it’s a slippery slope, and we will slide with it. 

“The LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my strength, in whom I will trust; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower” (Psalms 18:2).

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Right Priorities

It’s another new year, brothers. I hope each of you has incorporated a read-through-the-Bible -n-a-year plan. You might use it for family Bible time or your own private reading. It is so beneficial for us to have that cover-to-cover, overall familiarity each year. What a blessing. It is huge for your children to see the Word of God having a priority in your life as you also model it for theirs. We are always teaching them by our choices.

Sadly, I have known many through the years who won’t take time to read the Bible. Amazing how we all find time to do the things that are important to us, and somehow we are too busy for the things that will most benefit our lives. 

When someone has little interest in reading God’s Word that is a huge red flag as to whether they are even saved. We would not expect a lost person to want to read Scripture. Also just like a child who only eats junk food has little to no interest in healthy food. If someone is streaming the world’s entertainment/media into their mind, they will have no interest in what is healthy for their soul. 

Oh my brothers, to the Word! It is the ultimate health food for the soul.

“… Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God:” (Matthew 4:4).

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How Many Last Week?

Imagine the end-times judgement of those who were not followers of Jesus Christ. We aren’t given many specifics, but what if the redeemed are able to observe the judgement of those who never came to Christ? If so, can you imagine with me one of your neighbors is summoned and stands before the Lord. The Lord, the Judge of all the earth is told that your neighbor’s name is not in the Book of Life. Your neighbor then hears those terrible words, “… I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity” (Matthew 7:23a). Your neighbor is horrified and realizes his fate is eternal hell. If only he had been told earlier. 

Then he turns toward you and points a shaking finger and SCREAMS, “YOU HYPOCRITE! YOU KNEW I WASN’T A FOLLOWER OF JESUS, AND YOU DIDN’T DO EVERYTHING YOU POSSIBLY COULD TO HELP ME COME TO HIM?” 

“And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire” (Revelation 20:15).

Brothers, how serious are you in sharing Christ with those you know, neighbors, and extended family? Might the worst hypocrite be the one who is saved and does not love his “neighbor” by telling him about salvation by the blood of Jesus?

(My Brothers I had to share again. How many have you attempted to share Christ with last week? We must be busy about the Lord’s business and not slack.)

SIMPLE BUT STRATEGIC WAYS TO TAKE THE STRESS OUT OF CHRISTMAS

While most of us love the Christmas season, sometimes all the busyness, activities, and things that must be done put us into overload mode. Stress levels rise, and instead of a joyful season of worshipping Christ our Savior, we become crazy women running to and fro, impatient and frustrated. That sure isn’t my picture of a godly, Christian woman, and I don’t want it to characterize my life during the weeks that are so precious in my year. So how can we take the stress out of the Christmas season?

1. REST IN THE LORD

Perhaps the greatest stress reliever is to remember the words of Christ Himself. “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28). During the weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas, are we truly coming to Him? Are we continuing in our daily time to worship Him through reading His Word and praying? 

2. WRITE IT DOWN

Write down what you want to do during the Christmas season. Often stress overwhelms us when our minds are trying to track, manage, remember, and juggle all that needs to be done. Our memory becomes so full of all the “stuff,” that we can’t handle it. When you write it down, relief descends. It is in a safe place to be retrieved and referred to. 

3. PARE DOWN

The third thing you can do to help relieve holiday stress is to pare down. Once you have that list, determine activities or duties that are no longer a priority. Just because you have always done it, doesn’t mean that you have to keep doing it.
What Christmas activities draw your heart to Jesus? Which ones share Him with others? Which ones teach your children to love, that it is better to give than to receive, or to worship Christ? I would rather have a peaceful heart and do half as many Christ-related traditions and activities than to do the full measure of them stressed. 

4. PLAN

Next, you take the pared-down, prioritized list of Christmas activities and write out steps needed to accomplish each one. Perhaps there are supplies to be purchased and gathered. Maybe a date should be put on the calendar to reserve the time. It could be that others are to be invited.

5. DEDICATE TIME

Even with the best-prioritized, planned list of Christmas activities, if you don’t have any time to do them, you feel stressed. How does a busy mom find time for doing more than she currently does in her normal daily life?

Start with just one hour per day in the month of December for Christmas preparations—a specific hour that you know you can consistently be committed to keeping. If you are a homeschool mom, shorten your school day by one hour for the month of December to accommodate. You will be pleasantly surprised with the progress you can make on things like Christmas cards or letters, online gift shopping, gift wrapping, meal planning, and make-ahead baking in just one hour.

With available time, look at your lists and steps, and choose what you will tackle during that time frame.

CHOOSE TO DESTRESS

Christmas is the last time of year when you want to be a stressed woman. This Christmas season would you choose to set aside Christmas stress and pick up the joy, peace, and rest of the Savior?

Here are four resources that I recommend to help you with holiday de-stressing or any-time-of-the-year de-stressing:

Managers of Their Homes
Managers of Their Chores
Homeschooling with a Meek and Quiet Spirit
Sweet Journey

Scary Times

I’m not referring to the current wicked celebration where death, evil, and the devil are celebrated. Next week, our country will select leadership at almost every level. This could/should be highly concerning times for those who are god-fearing and value religious freedom. Yet, praise God that He is in control. “The king’s heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will” (Proverbs 21:1).

Most of us haven’t lived through really difficult times such as the depression or the WW’s. We have been so blessed. Every type of food is on the grocery shelves. Most aren’t concerned for their day-to-day safety. Fuel and medical care are readily available. We are crazy blessed to live in this country during this time. 

I suppose that is part of the problem. People have what they want (far beyond needs), therefore “who needs God?” But during times of need, aren’t more people likely to turn to  Him? Might hard-times be what we need most? 

Also, I wonder if our country might be edging closer to a well-deserved chastening. When a country is chastened, it’s citizens suffer. Yet, should we be scared and worry? “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid” (John 14:27). 

What do we do? Pray. Pray for God to be glorified. Pray for the outcome that will yield the most souls saved. Pray that those who are truly saved will be busy about His business not the current fun and games pursuits. Brothers, repent, plead, pray that our wonderful, awesome, God will be glorified with many many souls coming to Him. May this be the beginning of the needed revival. 

“That thou keep this commandment without spot, unrebukeable, until the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ: Which in his times he shall shew, who is the blessed and only Potentate, the King of kings, and Lord of lords; Who only hath immortality, dwelling in the light which no man can approach unto; whom no man hath seen, nor can see: to whom be honour and power everlasting. Amen” (1 Timothy 6:14-16).

My Brothers, be sure to vote. 

Forgotten but Not by God

There is an attribute of God that seems to be forgotten by “Christians” today. It is also symptomatic of a low view of God, exemplified in bringing God down to our level. He is simply the “man upstairs.” “These things hast thou done, and I kept silence; thou thoughtest that I was altogether such an one as thyself: but I will reprove thee, and set them in order before thine eyes” (Psalms 50:21). The “awe” is lost and “worship” is more about being entertained with spiffy music and a non-biblical, non-convicting story time. 

God is holy, and He calls His children to live holy lives. “According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love” (Ephesians 1:4). Is that your heart’s desire?

I’ve been rereading Jerry Bridges book The Pursuit of Holiness. He used two of my favorite verses in describing making right decisions. 

“But what about issues that are not specifically mentioned in the Scriptures—how do we determine God’s will and develop conviction in those areas? Years ago a friend gave me what he called his “Formula: How to Know Right from Wrong.” 

The formula asks four questions based on three verses in 1 Corinthians: Everything is permissible for me—but not everything is beneficial . 

Question 1: Is it helpful—physically, spiritually, and mentally?
“‘All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.” (1 Corinthians 6:12). 

Question 2: Does it bring me under its power? 
“Wherefore, if meat make my brother to offend, I will eat no flesh while the world standeth, lest I make my brother to offend.” (1 Corinthians 8:13). 

Question 3: Does it hurt others?
“So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). 

Question 4: Does it glorify God?”

Brothers, our world is in a downward spiral. I plead with you, don’t get pulled down with it. 

(Another great book is Holinessby J.C. Ryle)

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Praise, Praise, Praise

“And the seventy returned again with joy, saying, Lord, even the devils are subject unto us through thy name” (Luke 10:17-18). Notice that the seventy disciples who were out sharing Christ had joy as a result of their obedience in serving. Next, Jesus affirmed them by telling that He saw Satan being cast down as a result of the seventies’ obedience. “And he said unto them, I beheld Satan as lightning fall from heaven” (Luke 10:17).  Next, consider the joy of those who had been ministered to by the seventy in hearing about Jesus and those healed. What a triple praise that resulted from the seventies’ obedience. 

What if the seventy, instead of being obedient to the Lord, chose activities (non-sinful of course) that would have been fun and relaxing. Maybe it would have been the historical Bible times equivalent to watching a good movie, a favorite team play, or the news. Consider the blessings and praise which would have been missed. 

Oh my brothers, any time you think of the dismal state of our nation or what we are facing these elections, consider that it might not be like this if Christians, since the founding of our nation, chose obedience like the seventy. The opiate of the masses is pleasure and fun because, of course, there is nothing wrong with it. 

“Therefore said he unto them, The harvest truly is great, but the labourers are few: pray ye therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he would send forth labourers into his harvest” (Luke 10:2).

(Note: did you catch the intentional contradiction above? If the 70 had chosen to do anything other than what Jesus told them to do, even if considered sinless activities, they would have been disobedient, meaning sinning. Hmmm. What about us?) 

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First chirp 

Today it was around 5:15 a.m. when I heard the first bird chirp. Very soon others will join with more chirping as a new day begins. There is a first chirp in every neighborhood around the world that begins the chorus. 

 In a similar way, I want to be a first chirp too. I want to proclaim my Lord’s goodness every day to those around me. I want to be heralding my Lord’s goodness and His return. He is always good, always. 

“What I tell you in darkness, that speak ye in light: and what ye hear in the ear, that preach ye upon the housetops” (Matthew 10:27).”Praise ye the LORD. O give thanks unto the LORD; for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever” (Psalms 106:1).