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A New Perspective

Do you remember the first time you looked at something through a magnifying glass? I don’t remember the specifics, but I do remember being in awe at seeing details that I hadn’t dreamed existed. It brought a whole new understanding and appreciation. The greater the magnification, the more the amazement in what I was looking at. Magnification doesn’t change the object. It just enables us to see details that weren’t obvious under normal viewing. 

“O magnify the LORD with me, and let us exalt his name together” (Psalms 34:3). We don’t use the word magnify any more in a nonvisual context. Therefore, to encounter it in Psalms 34:3, it is easy to lose some of the impact in this incredible verse. I love David’s invitation for us to magnify and exalt God’s name together. Take that to heart my brothers. 

We are to be the curved glass that brings the details of God into clear view for others. Wherever you are — home, at church or around others — share the Lord’s goodness, mercy, love, grace, patience, holiness, and righteousness. Share the details about our mighty God so that others can come to “see” Who He is more clearly and understand how wonderful our God is. Love Him. Elevate Him. Today when our God is considered by most to be simply (yawn) the “the man upstairs,” they need to hear that He is righteous and holy. He hates sin so much He would sacrifice His own Son as payment for our sin. If that isn’t worthy of magnifying so others can see Him, nothing is.  

In a day when it appears that less and less churches magnify the Lord, your children need a dad who magnifies the God and Creator to them. 

“I will praise the name of God with a song, and will magnify him with thanksgiving” (Psalms 69:30).

What’s the Goal?

Marriage—what an amazing gift God gave us. It is complex, yet simple, providing manifold opportunities for grace and growth. It’s funny how every marriage is different, yet similar. Following God’s design, most wedding ceremonies include vows. Often part of the wife’s vow is to follow or obey her husband with wording based on Ephesians 5:22,23.

“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.” 

Now consider if you had a submissive wife who made her day-to-day decisions in your marriage with the main criteria of not making you angry. When she made a decision, if you were not angry, she was happy that she made a good decision. 

However, what if her desire was simply to please you because of her love for you? Sounds like a wonderful way to live doesn’t it? Now compare that to your life in Christ. Do you make choices so as to avoid sin (making God angry) or that you might please your Savior? I’m saddened that with so many of the believers I know, the appearance is that they make choices simply to avoid sin, not to please Him. May I encourage you that your motive to please Jesus is much better than the motive to avoid causing anger. Oh how sweet the relationship becomes. 

“And whatsoever we ask, we receive of him, because we keep his commandments, and do those things that are pleasing in his sight” (1 John 3:21-22).

Not Known

Have you attended a funeral and heard someone share something about the person who passed that was not known? Often it is of unique interest, honoring, or a bit amusing. If you contemplate that happening at your own funeral, you might be tempted to think, “I’ll be gone, and I don’t care what they know about me at that point.” However, there will be a time when we will care what is revealed. 

“But why dost thou judge thy brother? or why dost thou set at nought thy brother? for we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ” (Romans 14:10).

“And I saw a great white throne, and him that sat on it, from whose face the earth and the heaven fled away; and there was found no place for them. And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works” (Revelation 20:11-12).

Even if we are saved by the blood, our actions will be revealed and judged. Nothing will be hidden, no secret sins that are not revealed. Oh my brothers, let us walk to please the One Who purchased us with His blood. 

“Furthermore then we beseech you, brethren, and exhort you by the Lord Jesus, that as ye have received of us how ye ought to walk and to please God, so ye would abound more and more” (1 Thessalonians 4:1).

Missed Opportunities

It sure disappoints me when I miss an opportunity for something that is important to me. For example, one thing I love to do is give praise to the Lord for the things He does in my life and the world around me. I’m guessing you feel that way too. 

What I’ve done is to consider the things in His Word that give glory to my Father, the magnificent, holy, righteous God of creation Who is on the throne. One example: “I will bless the LORD at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth. My soul shall make her boast in the LORD: the humble shall hear thereof, and be glad. O magnify the LORD with me, and let us exalt his name together” (Psalms 34:1-3). 

I’ve found the easiest way to begin is simply when anyone asks how I’m doing. (Indirectly asking me to glorify my God.) My answer is always “Blessed!” Even with the passing of my beloved mother-in-law, I’m still blessed. She was a special part of our lives for over 34 years, living next door to her. It was a great sadness with her passing, but oh how God blessed. She knew the Lord and served Him greatly. Her passing caused me great introspection on the brevity of life and God’s goodness and mercy every day. How blessed we are to live in this country. We still have the freedom to share Christ openly and worship Him as a group of believers. 

To magnify is to make something big so its features can be easily observed and appreciated. Therefore, we explain how God is good or how we receive His mercy and grace. These will take more thought than simply replying “Blessed.” But as you get in the habit of saying, “Blessed,” and you think more about how God is good to you, it will become easier. Another I use frequently is, “Thankful God is on the throne.” Come up with more and use them. I’d love to hear what you are saying to glorify Him. 

Go for it. Magnify the Lord, my brothers. 

(Note) I was exceedingly encouraged by your responses to my question last week. I know that anything good in Seriously is a result of God’s grace in what to write. Your responses were affirmation that He is in it and blessing you all in your walk with Him.

Question

Do you ever stop and evaluate how well you are using your time? That is very important to me. Next in importance is being a good steward of the Lord’s money. 

To send out the monthly Mom’s Corner and weekly Seriously Dads emails, is an investment of time and resources. Our heart’s desire is that they are being used effectively to encourage Christian dads and moms in raising their children to love and follow the Lord Jesus Christ. I don’t remember ever asking for donations, and I’m not doing that now. 

I am asking that you would simply, reply to this email with a simple answer to the following question: Are you reading Seriously Dads emails and are they encouragement to your walk with Jesus Christ as you strive to lead your family? 

Yes  or No?

“But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine: That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience. The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded. In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works: in doctrine shewing uncorruptness, gravity, sincerity, Sound speech, that cannot be condemned; that he that is of the contrary part may be ashamed, having no evil thing to say of you” (Titus 2:1-8).

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Hairs in  Socks

I remember a time years back when I noticed one of the children meticulously inspecting the inside of a pair of socks. Quite perplexed, I asked, “What are you looking for?” “Hairs.” 

“Why would you look for hairs in your socks?” 

“Because it tickles my feet if there is one in there.” 

In all my years of wearing socks, never was that a problem for me. As I thought about it, I was amazed at how sensitive the bottom of that child’s foot must be to feel a hair. 

Then the prayerful thought came, “Oh Lord, may I have such a spiritual sensitivity in my life that I can sense the slightest grieving of Your Holy Spirit by my actions, words, or even thoughts. May I be willing to examine my life ever so closely for those minor things that could been offensive to You, Lord, or others?”

“And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption” (Ephesians 4:30). 

Gone

We give out sweet bread every year at Christmas time to our extended neighborhood. Out of the almost 75 houses on our list, four people died this year. Three out of the four had no reason to think they would be six feet in the ground in one year’s time. The fourth had a serious health problem and was just waiting until it was over. Those four people who were here last Christmas, are now gone from this world.

Brothers, are you living every day and every week as if it was your last? Are you living for your Lord or living for yourself? Are you loving God or the world? Are you loving your family as God calls you to? Are you in the Word every night instructing them in the way they should go? Are you an example to them of what you are reading and discussing? Would their memories of you be that you were a steadfast man of God who loved and spoke often of the Savior. “Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord” (1 Corinthians 15:58).

 Just yesterday a man at a car parts store said he was saved. Yet, he wasn’t in the Word and wasn’t going to church. There seemed to be no evidence that he was bought with a price. 

“And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry. But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided? So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God” (Luke 12:19-21).

Oh, my brothers, are we living all day every day for the One who died for us?

How Many Stars

I just got off the phone with the most professional customer service rep I ever spoke with. She knew her job, was polite, and helpful. There were three things she took the time to tell me that weren’t necessary but might be helpful for me to know later. When I worked with someone who cared about her job and the customer she was attempting to assist, even if my problem wasn’t immediately resolved I had confidence and peace going forward. What a pleasure she was. 

The call prompted some self examination for me. Isn’t part of my “job” as an ambassador for Christ to be like that customer service rep? How knowledgeable am I of the One I represent and what it means to be a follower of Him? In addition to my Bible knowledge, am I polite, kind, and loving? Am I living the reality of the One I am called to represent? If heaven and my Lord are so wonderful, wouldn’t it create many questions if others see me living for the world? 

“Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:13-14).

A Great App Idea

Have you noticed how there is an app for everything these days? If you need any type of fast food, a service, tickets to go somewhere, some kind of product, it can all be had by an app on your phone. Now with AI the list of questions one can ask is limitless.

Maybe a new idea for an app would be one that gives guidance on whether or not something is permissible for a Christian. You know, the kind of app that would tell you if the activity was sin? You could type in, “should I go to …or watch ….” and it searches Scripture and comes back with an answer. Hmm, but that might be pretty difficult considering the key words people would enter these days for their search such as a movie title, particular amusement, concert, entertainment, sports event, or TV show.  Those might be what a Christian would want direction on but those words aren’t even in Scripture. But that doesn’t mean we have to abandon the idea of an app.The question could be typed in: “Should I go/do …..” The answer would come back: “Wherefore we labour, that, whether present or absent, we may be accepted of him” (2 Corinthians 5:9). Then one could click on the word “accepted” and it would give the Greek word meaning (g2101. εὐάρεστος euarestos; from 2095 and 701; fully agreeable: — acceptable(-ted), wellpleasing.” (Strongs Concordance).

Wouldn’t that be incredible? Actually, why go to all the expense of an app when the answer is simple. Shouldn’t everything we do be evaluated by, “If I do it, will it please the Lord that owns me and my time?” And if that isn’t clear enough, “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). Will my doing it bring my Lord glory? 

Or “That ye may approve things that are excellent; that ye may be sincere and without offence till the day of Christ” (Philippians 1:10). That something not only isn’t sinful, but in view of God’s heart, is it excellent? 

No need for an app. It really is pretty simple isn’t it? May we use our precious time on what will bring our Lord glory and please Him. 

How Many Last Week?

Imagine the end-times judgement of those who were not followers of Jesus Christ. We aren’t given many specifics, but what if the redeemed are able to observe the judgement of those who never came to Christ? If so, can you imagine with me one of your neighbors is summoned and stands before the Lord. The Lord, the Judge of all the earth is told that your neighbor’s name is not in the Book of Life. Your neighbor then hears those terrible words, “… I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity” (Matthew 7:23a). Your neighbor is horrified and realizes his fate is eternal hell. If only he had been told earlier. 

Then he turns toward you and points a shaking finger and SCREAMS, “YOU HYPOCRITE! YOU KNEW I WASN’T A FOLLOWER OF JESUS, AND YOU DIDN’T DO EVERYTHING YOU POSSIBLY COULD TO HELP ME COME TO HIM?” 

“And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire” (Revelation 20:15).

Brothers, how serious are you in sharing Christ with those you know, neighbors, and extended family? Might the worst hypocrite be the one who is saved and does not love his “neighbor” by telling him about salvation by the blood of Jesus?

(My Brothers I had to share again. How many have you attempted to share Christ with last week? We must be busy about the Lord’s business and not slack.)